Can You Hypnotize Someone To Love You?


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Learn how your mindset hypnotizes your dates to be attracted or repelled by you.

I always put up a good front at first, but the truth subconsciously was being fed to my love interest. They were hypnotized into believing I wasn’t so great because that is how I really felt about myself deep inside. The Law of Transfiguration states what I believe will affect what you believe. When I found out about this law in hypnotherapy school I thought, "Oh, that’s why!"

So, what messages are you sending to your dates? Just watch how people react to you. Do they adore you or run for the hills after a few times out together? How people treat you is how you feel about yourself deep inside. Sometimes the message is received instantly within five minutes of meeting and others are skilled at fooling the person for just a little bit longer. You are probably not even aware of those subtle messages that you are sending them.


There are many hypnotists out there who claim to make you irresistible to the opposite sex, but their tricks only work temporarily. After some time you will eventually fall back into your default insecurities again. In order to have lasting impression on your dates, you must change your deep subconscious love template and then you can be naturally confident.

Once you shift how you feel about yourself on the deep level, you will no longer be attracted to those who won’t love you back. You will wonder why you were so hung up on your ex-boyfriend or husband in the first place and finally believe that you deserve so much more.

You can change your inner template by using self-hypnosis. In a relaxed state of mind, listening to positive messages will penetrate the subconscious one-thousand times more effectively than just saying affirmations. After 30-90 days you will shift your love blueprint. Hypnosis is probably the most powerful relationship dating technique available.

First you have to hypnotize yourself to believe you are awesome, then you will hypnotize every one you meet of that idea. When your inner mind truly believes you are the prize, the other people around you will agree. So you can hypnotize someone to love you, you just have to hypnotize yourself first.

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Debi Berndt


Debi Berndt is the co-founder of, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
Credentials: CHT
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