Once you discover that you are more than just your surface self and love even those hidden places inside, you will have natural, true self-esteem. The men you draw into your life will match your confidence and won’t flee when things get emotionally intimate. They, like you, are unafraid of what is deep inside and are willing share all of themselves with you. Now, that’s where the real fireworks go off and you begin a love that lasts a lifetime.
Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy. Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.
By Debi BerndtWhat does confidence really look like? How can you get it, and what types of people are confident in relationships? There is a huge misunderstanding that someone who cheats must be really confident — that is, they mus tthink a whole lot of themselves. The jilted person may then assume that if they felt better about themselves, their partner wouldn't ... Read more
By Debi Berndt"What am I doing wrong?" I hear this from men and women alike. Their relationships aren't working and they want an answer. And I want to say, "You are doing nothing wrong. The answer is NOTHING." The problem isn't in what you are doing but how you are being. When I was single, I listened to the misguided advice of how to act and ... Read more
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