If you love you, that is all that matters. From that place you attract a man who resonates with your self-love. As you generate more compassion for yourself especially when you make mistakes, you will also have patience with your partner. He will feel SO good around you because he will have the freedom to be real too. Would you want a relationship where you have to walk on eggshells around each other or avoid issues because you are just so afraid to be wrong or judged or abandoned? That doesn’t sound like love to me.
Start the process by going inside and ask your divine self to show you who you really are. Fall in love with your dorkiness, muffin top, or annoying control issues. Tap into your authentic beauty, power and intelligence and the path to love will fall in line for you naturally. Trust that you can make no mistakes and, if the guy can’t handle the real you, just say to yourself…NEXT! There is someone else waiting in line his turn for a chance to be with wonderful YOU.