5 Signs You Are Addicted To Being Single


5 Signs You Are Addicted To Being Single

In order to break the addiction, you first have to accept that you are creating your own dating problems. The next step is to find out why you are so afraid of being in love. Heal your inner wounds that make you hesitate to enter the love-zone and become open to a new social experience. Lastly, visualize and imagine yourself in a healthy relationship. Engage your feelings and you will trick your inner mind to believing that you are already in love.

The experience of relationship will become familiar and safe and your subconscious will stop resisting your attempts to find true love. As a recovering single-o-holic, I finally am free of my addiction after 20 years of dating. I complained that love wasn’t fair and blamed the men I dated when all along I was the one standing in my own way. Once you decide to say yes to love on all levels of your mind, true romance will seem to appear out of thin air. If you need help visualizing your true love, get a free Love Magnet Audio at my website or pick up a copy of my new book, LET LOVE IN

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Debi Berndt


Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

Location: Santa Monica, CA
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