I invite you to share the "Gift Of Gab" next time you have someone who is asking to really be listened to and heard. Once you begin to experience that peaceful feeling of not providing the answers, of applied silent pauses that do not need to be filled up you won't go back to your old habits.
Cultivating Communication starts with Cultivating Active Listening Skills. In your next conversation, think about how you would like to be listened to. Which listening style are you going to use from now on? We'd love to hear how this works for all of you, so please share your comments below and questions below. If you want more information, you can also download Cultivating Communication.
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