That’s such an exciting story! Depending on what the person said, you can ask for more details and revel in their excitement by not upstaging them with your story.
Asking open ended questions interspersed with silence have people feeling expanded, valued and confident that they can find their own solutions. You will have deepened your mutual trust and respect as well as having people looking forward to having more conversations with you.
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Do you ever catch yourself hijacking conversations? You probably do, so don’t beat yourself up now that you have the secret about asking questions. Start asking questions only in your conversations and see the magic happen!
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