Intensity isn’t being overly serious. It’s taking the bull by the horns to get what you desire. It’s being unstoppable, bodacious and focused. It’s having a thirst for adventure, knowledge and new experiences. It’s what fuels the adventurer and keeps the fire in your belly. It’s living life with gusto and owning your quirkiness.
The answer I prefer is a light-hearted and intense passionista. I let people know in advance that if I become too intense and they feel their eyes glazing over, it’s perfectly okay to give me a gentle poke, a distracting kiss, or just say, ‘Hey Funny Girl, we love you and you’re going over the top again.”
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I’m lighthearted enough, really I am, to throw off the labels and just be happy being me.
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