Her angry reaction provoked the exact result she needed to reinforce her belief that she was indeed invisible, unheard and unlovable and of course now she has collected more evidence of her belief. Her disappointment was justified and she’s really feeling worthless! Plus, she has more evidence that she is indeed, not always lovable. Of course, we know that isn’t true, but we collect so much self-created evidence that we take it for being the truth with a capital T.
Has this or something similar ever happened to you?
Stay tuned and meet wife number two in the next post.
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