ProConnect

5 Ways that Women BLOW the critical first 5 Dates

By

5 Ways that Women BLOW the critical first 5 Dates
5 Ways that Women BLOW the critical first 5 dates with men...And wind up back at single square one
  • * By Cooking him Dinner: Don’t whip out your apron right away, Ms. Cleaver. If cooking is your forte, that's a great asset but make him work a little for it first. If you cook for him too soon, you’ll look like you’re too eager to please him.
  • *By Calling and Texting him to Chat, to tell him you Miss him, or to tell him you're thinking about him: As I tell my clients, give him some space to chase in the beginning. Let HIM be the one to call and text you and open up about his feelings toward you. But if you're calling and texting him early on, he'll think you may end up being the "clingy" type and are desperate for a boyfriend.
  • * By Sleeping with Him or pleasing him in "Other ways" down there: Ladies, don’t care how much wine he gave you, whether he gave you a massage with oils or not, how good of a “Seducer” he was, or how great of a “connection” you guys had. Keep it in your pants for the first five dates, at least! And his attempts at sliding into home with you is his test for YOU as to how highly you value yourself.
  • * By accepting a late-night Date at his place, to ‘watch a movie’ or ‘hang out.’ – This is a fast way to lower your value and fall into the “Replaceable” category
  • * By doing his LAUNDRY! (Some of you may laugh... But this is much more common than you might think actually! Many women offer to do the man's laundry that she's dating, as a sort of attempt to prove her domesticity and "Wife material," but it will only make him stamp you with "Doormat" instead.
     

Share this with someone you love (or even like a lot)!

Let's make it
FB official
Recent Expert Posts
Love Never Dies: I Speak To My Dead Husband

I Speak To My Dead Husband

He was my soulmate and he never left me.

Flirting Tips: 5 Easy Steps To Get Men To Approach You

5 Easy Steps To Get Men To Approach You

He keeps staring, but he never makes a move. Find out why.

Why You Need To Give Your Kids Sex Education

You Need To Talk To Your Kids About Sex

Do your kids know all about the birds and the bees?

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Resources
How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>
HOT STUFF!
FROM OUR PARTNERS