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Trump's A Misogynist But We Shouldn't Shame Him For Enjoying Kink

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You simply can’t be a misogynist and enjoy golden showers, this is all so confusing?

The media should make up its mind when it comes to Donald Trump: Is he a misogynist crotch-grabbing jerk or a submissive golden shower woman worshiper?   

The rumor appears on the second page of an unsubstantiated document that BuzzFeed published this week, in which a British spy claims Trump secretly orchestrated a Russian prostitute to give him golden showers.

In my opinion, this is truly ridiculous news. As a certified clinical sexologist who works with clients who have sexual fetishes as well as other sexual issues, shaming Trump for his sexual proclivities —  whether said proclivities are true or not — sends out a very negative message about sexuality. 

Vilifying sexuality, sexual practice and what people do privately is wrong, regardless of the fact that Trump is a misogynist.


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Poking fun at people who enjoy kink only make people who enjoy that type of stuff want to hide and feel shame. Great job, media!

According to an article in Psychology Today, they point out that a misogynist behavior towards women, in general, is grandiose, cocky, controlling, and self-centered. He likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure.

Foreplay, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes oral sex but only as a recipient.  

(Perhaps we have already experienced a misogynist in the oval office who enjoys oral sex, I don’t need to mention his name.  I think that is real media, but I might be mistaken, it is all one big or very small conspiracy theory?)

Let’s talk about a man who enjoys golden showers and the fact that supposedly Donald Trump hired prostitutes to urinate on him which puts him in a submissive position. (Yep, that sounds just like Donald Trump.)  

Generally, men that have a fetish for golden showers tend to be submissive and want to get closer to the person by having them urinate on them or drink their urine.

The prostitutes that were hired then would be in a more dominant position than Donald Trump who also appears to be somewhat of a neat freak.


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Maybe misogynist describes him better, although he surrounds himself with women and has them in prominent potions in his office — not to mention, his campaign manager is a woman Kellyanne Conway.  

I think that the label of misogynist does not fit Donald Trump either? Wait, perhaps he does worship women, and enjoys golden showers, this is just all so confusing?

The kicker to all of this, of course, is that it all ties into the Russian hackers, which now makes the entire subject matter a sad joke and it should be no joke at all about our national security. 

Let’s stick to real news and stop using sexual labels that people truly struggle with to attack Donald Trump. Whether you support him or not, this type of media is just simply destructive and stupid, just like this article.

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