Are You In A Cuckold Marriage?


Are You In A Cuckold Marriage?
I have a fantasy of watching my wife have sex with other men in front of me...

This may become a part of just the sexual play in the couple’s life or this may become a way of life for the couple depending on the degree of the cuckolding in the marriage.

Cuckolding is not a new practice and has been around for centuries, but it is a practice that sex counselors and sex coaches like me and others in the profession are knowledgeable about, to some degree. What is typically depicted in pornography does not explain the psychological aspect of cuckolding. 


A man who may have these feelings of wanting to be submissive to his wife, or wants his wife to shame him, but lives in fear of anyone knowing is not as uncommon as we may think. My job as a Clinical Sexologist is to write educational articles as a ways to enlighten the public on sexuality and counsel couples and individuals who need help.  Cuckolding is just one of the many kinks people have, but do not understand.

One of the main questions I get asked by men is, "How do I tell my wife and then if she does agree where do I find a person to start the cuckolding with?" As with any new adventure that a married couple takes with sex play it should be done slowly, and with respect for each other.

For more information on cuckolding or to set up an appointment with Dawn Michael in her office in Thousand Oaks, California, e-mail, phone (805) 732-7847 or visit me on my website

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Dr. Dawn Michael

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Dawn Michael PhD ACS

Location: Westlake Village, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, PhD
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