My husband watchs pornography instead of having sex with me

Lastly, marriage is about two people working together on the relationship. Part of marriage is pleasing each other sexually and having that sexual intimacy, otherwise you may as well just be roommates. I suggest that you sit down and talk with him about the fact that if he is not willing to work on the intimacy in the marriage than you want to leave the marriage. I have helped hundreds of couples save their marriage and greatly improve the sexual intimacy in their marriage. I have outlined some of the steps in the article http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-have-better-intimacy-in-your-marriage both of you should take the time to read the article and go through the steps. During counseling sessions with couples I outline each step and then we meet to talk about the progress and any questions that they may come up, but you can also try this on your own and see how it works. Taking the time to do these steps and then opening up with one another after and sharing your feelings is a way to begin to heal your marriage.