What to Wear on the First Date

As you know, men are extremely visual. We are ridiculously visual.   A low-cut silk blouse that you love may be the most distracting thing on a first date. The office pantsuit that you wear when you're meeting him for a cup of coffee or a drink after work just might turn him off because you look ...

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How A Married Man's Friendships With Single Women Become Affairs

In my 15 years of coaching, women have come to me over and over again with the same problem: falling for a married man.   The stories always begin the same way: "There's this guy... he's soo great! We connect in every way and he makes my heart flutter like a schoolgirl. I know, I ...

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How to Understand Man Talk

I got a great e-mail from Nicole.   She wrote: Hey David,   I’ve complained to my man that he's not been caring of late and he said that he has financial debt that he's trying to resolve. The problem here is that he hardly calls. Now he said I ...

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Turn Him On with Your Eye Contact

I get turned on a lot. But nothing turns me on more than when I’m sitting across from a woman I’m attracted to… …and I’m looking deep into her eyes and she’s looking back into mine. I wonder what she’s thinking. Nothing turns me on more than when I am ...

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When Is the Right Time to Have Sex with a Man?

Today, I got the most frequently asked question in my email inbox. I get this every day from a woman regardless of the age. She could be in your 20s, 30s, 40s or even 50s. But every day—without fail—I get this e-mail: David, I've been dating this guy. When is the right time to ...

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