David M. Matthews - Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Porter Ranch, CA
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The 3 Things Men Are Looking For In A Relationship

Women frequently ask me what guys are looking for in their relationships with the women in their lives. And although they may realize how uncomplicated guys are, they are still usually surprised by the simplicity of my answer. In general, men are looking for three ...

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He's Started Saying "No" To Blowjobs

In response to a previous column, I received the following letter, which I would like to share with my readers. Question: My question is very personal, but I read your blog and found it interesting. My husband, believe it or not, says he has to be in the mood for oral sex especially when I want to do it to ...

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Why Men Ask You Out

Dating is a complicated ritual that most of us have engaged in at some point in our lives. And while many of us may find it awkward, tedious, and even downright frustrating, we nonetheless continue to do it because the drive to connect with another individual is so strong. But what are we looking for in our ...

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8 Ways To Know If He Thinks You're A MILF

Question: I am a woman in my mid forties and I think a 26 year-old co-worker of my husband’s wants to have sex with me. How do I know for sure? What are the signs a man gives? ...Joy Answer: First let me say, that if you suspect that a man you know wants to have sex with you, chances are you're ...

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Male-Female Platonic Friendship? Yeah, Right

If you are like many women today, in addition to your numerous female friends, you also have several male friends. For the most part, these are guys you don't date, but you enjoy their company. You hang out with them, share what's going on in your personal lives, get their male perspective on things, but ...

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David M. Matthews

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach


I offer my services:


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Other, please inquire

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Articles by David M. Matthews

The 3 Things Men Are Looking For In A Relationship

The way to a man's heart isn't complicated. Fulfill these 3 needs, and he'll be yours long-term.


He's Started Saying "No" To Blowjobs

Why would any man say no to oral sex? Find out why he's putting the brakes on blowjobs.


Why Men Ask You Out

He's asked you out on a date. You think you know why, but you're not sure. Here's his reason.

Bad Date

8 Ways To Know If He Thinks You're A MILF

Is his flirtation harmless flattery? Or is he making plans to see you naked?

Male-Female Platonic Friendship? Yeah, Right [EXPERT]

Male-Female Platonic Friendship? Yeah, Right

Is platonic friendship possible between members of the opposite sex?

Check Out My New Book
Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think
Employing equal measures of wit and wisdom, ...
By David M. Matthews

David M. Matthews

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention