David M. Matthews - Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Porter Ranch, CA
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Did Saying The “M” Word Make Him Run?

Question: I have been dating this widower, Bob, for about three months now. He has had a woman at work, Deborah, hitting on him.  In fact, she pretty much has asked Bob to marry her. I told him he needs to tell her about me, but he said his personal life is none of her business.Read More

Men And “Bad Sex”

Today I would like to dispel a lousy rumor; one that persists despite the fact that it is not now, nor ever was true.  I’m talking about, of course, the idea that to men there is no such thing as “bad sex.”  This is absolutely false.  We do recognize bad sex.  But like lite ...

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Why Men Cheat

Generally speaking, men cheat because they have the opportunity.  That doesn’t mean that a guy will definitely cheat just because he has the chance, but rather that availability of a ready and willing partner is the primary motivator in moving men ...

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“Doing It” With A Hernia

Question: We are struggling in our sex life, due to sickness. My husband has developed two hernias. The one in his tummy he has had for years, but the one in his groin is newer and starting to cause him pain, including during sex.  Do you have any advice to help ...

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10 Dating Mistakes Men Make When They're Interested In A Woman

Dating is a crazy business.  It often involves putting oneself in the awkward position of having to make meaningful and engaging conversation with a virtual stranger while trying to assess if future encounters will be emotionally/physically/spiritually satisfying on any level.  And you usually have to ...

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David M. Matthews

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach


I offer my services:


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Other, please inquire

I am fluent in:


Articles by David M. Matthews

Did Saying The “M” Word Make Him Run?

Did mentioning marriage kill the romance? If so, how else could she have gotten her point across?


Men And “Bad Sex”

For men, all sex is good sex, right? Well...not exactly.

Hand Shake

Why Men Cheat

Think you know what causes a man to stray? Read this and find the uncomfortable truth.

happy couple older

“Doing It” With A Hernia

Should a disability end their sex life? How to overcome health issues and keep physical intimacy.


10 Dating Mistakes Men Make When They're Interested In A Woman

Want to win her heart? Here are 10 things to avoid like a social disease.

Check Out My New Book
Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think
Employing equal measures of wit and wisdom, ...
By David M. Matthews

David M. Matthews

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention