How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

Question: My question is this…how long do you wait to sleep with a man…one month, two months, more?  Since my eventual goal is to be married, how do I know that the man I’m dating sees me in his future and not just as a  nine-month, ten-month, or even one-night stand?  ...

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A Man And His Member

Lately there has been a proliferation of bad news: Slow economic recovery, a soft housing market, corporate insolvency, wars, violence, famine, natural disaster, and the cancelation of “Dog The Bounty Hunter.”  Thus, rather than deal with anything too serious in this Election Day column, I ...

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How To Communicate With Men

Men have many positive qualities; we are fairly simple in our needs and typically pretty easily pleased. We generally are straight-forward in our approach to things such as dating and our agenda is usually obvious ... ...

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Did Saying The “M” Word Make Him Run?

Question: I have been dating this widower, Bob, for about three months now. He has had a woman at work, Deborah, hitting on him.  In fact, she pretty much has asked Bob to marry her. I told him he needs to tell her about me, but he said his personal life is none of her business.Read More

Men And “Bad Sex”

Today I would like to dispel a lousy rumor; one that persists despite the fact that it is not now, nor ever was true.  I’m talking about, of course, the idea that to men there is no such thing as “bad sex.”  This is absolutely false.  We do recognize bad sex.  But like lite ...

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