David M. Matthews - Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Porter Ranch, CA
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What To Do When Sex Is Always A "Quickie"

Question: I've been dating a man for over seven months now.  He is 51 and I am 44. I discovered right off the bat that he can't last but a few seconds as soon as he is inside of me. Now in the beginning he said he was too excited, or it was on my territory (ie. my house… so he insisted we go ...

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The Great Toilet Seat Debate

We live in complicated, controversial times.  There is upheaval all around us, and vastly differing opinions as to the appropriate way to resolve virtually every problem.  The “right” and the “left” can’t seem to agree on anything…except maybe that they’re ...

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How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

Question: My question is this…how long do you wait to sleep with a man…one month, two months, more?  Since my eventual goal is to be married, how do I know that the man I’m dating sees me in his future and not just as a  nine-month, ten-month, or even one-night stand?  ...

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A Man And His Member

Lately there has been a proliferation of bad news: Slow economic recovery, a soft housing market, corporate insolvency, wars, violence, famine, natural disaster, and the cancelation of “Dog The Bounty Hunter.”  Thus, rather than deal with anything too serious in this Election Day column, I ...

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How To Communicate With Men

Men have many positive qualities; we are fairly simple in our needs and typically pretty easily pleased. We generally are straight-forward in our approach to things such as dating and our agenda is usually obvious ... ...

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David M. Matthews

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach


I offer my services:


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Other, please inquire

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Articles by David M. Matthews

What To Do When Sex Is Always A "Quickie"

Is your man a little quick on the draw? Here are some suggestions to help him "slow his roll."

Butting Heads

The Great Toilet Seat Debate

Why can't guys just learn to leave the damn seat down? Is that too much to ask? Maybe it is.

Make A Move

How Soon Should You Jump Into Bed?

Is it better to delay having sex in a relationship? Or should you just dive right into the pool?


A Man And His Member

Think a dog is man's best friend? Here's a less-furry pal that he's even more "nuts" about.

How To Communicate With Men [EXPERT]

How To Communicate With Men

Why you should stop being subtle and start saying what you want.

Check Out My New Book
Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think
Employing equal measures of wit and wisdom, ...
By David M. Matthews

David M. Matthews

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention