What To Do When An Old Affair Rears Its Ugly Head

Question: After having an affair eight years ago, out of the blue the other man calls me to tell me he "wanted to make sure I was okay," and ended the call with "I also wanted to tell you I still love you after all these years." I'm still married and worked through the affair but never ...

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Too Old For Anal Sex?

Question: I wanted to ask?  In regards to anal play: My husband and I use to do it when we were younger.  I still enjoy it sometimes, but it can hurt and even make me bleed a little?  Are we just too old to enjoy that particular form of play? ...

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Hubby Pays More Attention To TV Than Wife

Question: I have been married for nineteen years and I was wondering if you know what I should do.  The problem is that my husband always ignores me when he’s watching TV - no matter what is on - even during commercials.  What can I do to stop ...

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A Few Words About Men And Porn

Despite the phenomenal growth of the internet as a source of information, entertainment, social networking and product marketing, few businesses have profited more than “adult entertainment” sites – in other words: Porn.  Websites that appeal to the voyeuristic tendencies in men, ...

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What To Do When Sex Is Always A "Quickie"

Question: I've been dating a man for over seven months now.  He is 51 and I am 44. I discovered right off the bat that he can't last but a few seconds as soon as he is inside of me. Now in the beginning he said he was too excited, or it was on my territory (ie. my house… so he insisted we go ...

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