So, you’re dating a guy, and his Facebook page is open to a hot female friend of his.
When you ask him who she is, he’ll tell you that she’s just a friend of his.
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So then, of course, being a woman, you’ll start becoming a little bit of an interrogator, and you’ll ask him how he knows her.
You won’t be satisfied with his answer because you already think something’s going on.
And you really want to know the real answer: you really want to know why he’s looking at hot women on the Facebook.
The reason why men look at hot women is the same reason why men watch instant replay. A man loves to look at beautiful women—pictures of them, movies of them, whatever. We’ve been born and bred that way since we saw our first Playboy magazine.
Ladies: it doesn’t mean that we want to go to bed with them!
It just means that we are being normal guys. If we never looked at another woman again, you would be dating an abnormal man.
We’re not corresponding with her; we’re not doing anything; we’re just checking her out.
Men love to check things out. Men love to look at pictures. Men love to watch instant replay.
Men love to just look at women.
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The next time you see him, don’t go into interrogation mode. Just realize, it’s no big deal.
His eyes may be looking at another woman, but his heart is all yours.