Why The Human Race Is A Sexual Mess!

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Why The Human Race Is A Sexual Mess!
The world is in trouble, and until we learn to embrace our sexuality, things will only get worse!

I want you to name the only animal on the planet that can turn off their sexual energy. Can you guess the only animal that can turn off its natural sexual energy?

If you said human beings, you're 100% correct. Humans are the only creature on the planet that can turn of their natural sexual energy, because humans are the only animals that have the power to live life through their heads. Of course, the head and the brain is what controls and can switch off pure, raw, natural sexual energy.

It's amazing when you think about it. We're naturally programed to project sexually energy, yet we've found a way not to do it. While other animals have sex when they want, how they want, without thinking about it, the human race is in its head sexually as much as in its body. Sex is a primal, animalistic urge. It's natural, except for human beings. 

How many other creatures suffer from sexual inhibitions? When was the last time you saw an elephant with approach anxiety? Human men suffer from premature ejaculation. Human women have trouble climaxing because they're stuck in their heads. Human men also have trouble getting an erection because once again, they're stuck in their heads so much.

We've almost destroyed our sexuality by living in our heads. We've taken the one thing that was so pure and beautiful and turned it into a big mind game. We humans love creating and playing mind games don't we?

We've evolved so we try to out maneuver and outthink everything. We stopped being primal so long ago. We have to think everything through. We have to think about sex, we have to think about when to ask someone on a date, we have to think about when to text someone back. We have to analyze every move we make.

Now we lack that beautiful, primal, and natural sexual energy because we've tried to control every bit of our lives. We're always looking for the answers. It's interesting. I was working a client and we discussed sexuality, and how humans have overdeveloped ourselves.

When you walk around you can see how few people have their sexual energy turned on. I notice it all the time when I'm working with people. I'd say nine out of ten people have their energy turned off. Most people are too scared to turn it on. Others don't even know how to turn on or channel sexual energy.

It's amazing to watch people trying to get sexual with themselves. I'm not talking about masturbation either. I'm talking about turning it on when they're talking to someone. You should have it turned on all the time. Sexual energy is creative energy.

It's as if people are afraid of it. Today I want you to look deep inside yourself. Ask yourself if you're aware of your sexual energy. Remember I'm not talking about getting laid or even having sex. Sexual energy is flirting, sparking attraction, turning people on, and being aware of what's happening around you. 

One of the biggest complaints I see from men is they have trouble touching a woman. They call it sexual escalation. They don't know how to touch. They don't know when to touch. And touch is such a primal thing. If you weren't in your head all the time, you'd just touch. Allow touch, feel touch, and touch others.

Let's talk about sexual energy today. Let's talk about how to tap into it. Let's talk about some of your sexual hang-ups, and some of your sexual issues. Let's talk openly and allow ourselves to be vulnerable.

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