What Should You Do When A Man Goes Cold?

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What Should You Do When A Man Goes Cold?
The guy you were dating suddenly stops returning your calls and texts. What's your nex move?

It’s a woman’s worst nightmare.

You’ve started seeing this guy. He’s funny, kind, sexy, and most importantly he’s into you. Well, at least you think he is. He’s making all the right noises. He’s been attentive, he’s returned your calls and texts on time, and he’s taken you out on dates.

He’s even said he really “cares” about you. Then without warning, he goes cold. Not just a little cool. He goes completely stone cold. No calls, no texts, no contact. You’re upset, you’re confused, and you’re angry.

You’ve put everything into this relationship, and now he’s treating you like this. So now what do you do? Do you keep trying to contact him? Do you forget him? Do you move on?

What most women do is start to analyze everything. They start looking for answers. They start looking for reasons this man you thought was into you, has disappeared without trace. The lunch meetings with your girlfriends start, and you spend the next couple of months trying to figure it all out.

You need to STOP!

Driving yourself crazy about the whole thing isn’t going to help you at all. In fact, it’s holding you back. When you spend weeks doing what I call the “relationship autopsy,” you do a number of negative things to yourself.

You get yourself angry and frustrated, you depress yourself, and you find yourself even more confused about men than you’ve ever been. Stop the madness now. You’re wasting your time, and you’re seriously damaging your chances of ever meeting Mr. Right.

So what should you do when a guy goes cold?

In the video below, I reveal why you dwelling on things is so dangerous, and give you a some simple techniques for moving on, FAST!

 

Enjoy the video, and don’t forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel.

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David Wygant

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