Why he seems so aloof about what you're wearing.
So you’re dating a guy.
The two of you are about to go out.
Do you notice how you can ask him how your dress looks on you and he’ll answer with “okay”.
His answer is usually always positive.
“Yes, it looks okay on you.”
Whenever a man says that, you know what he’s telling you? He’s telling you that it just looks okay on you. He’s never going to tell you that he doesn’t like it because he doesn’t want to rock your confidence.
He knows that you probably like the dress. And there have been so many times that you’ve worn clothes that he absolutely loves, so why bother telling you that he doesn’t like this little pink floral dress that you’re wearing.
Besides, he knows the very next time you see each other you’re going to be wearing something he loves
So next time he says that your dress looks ‘okay’, realize that he doesn’t particularly like it but he does love you and he doesn’t want to rock your confidence.
And he also knows that the majority of times, you look super sexy to him wearing things that he absolutely loves.
That actually is the sign of a real man, a man that actually cares about you, a man that actually thinks you’re amazing.
This article was originally published at David Wygant for Women . Reprinted with permission from the author.