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The Power of Hello

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The power of one simple word can go a long way and can even land you a first date!

The best way to start is to learn that saying hello to another human being makes you more approachable. By forcing yourself to say hello to men all day long, you are going to realize that it is not that painful. By realizing that it’s not that painful, it’s going to start to seem easy. Then you can have fun with it.

By carrying on a conversation, some men will take it further and some men will not. Regardless of whether they do, you are opening up your energy by doing this. You are becoming friendlier. You are also changing your body language. You’re not walking around all uptight anymore.

Stop waiting for men to walk up to you, and start smiling and saying hello. Also, stop worrying about what they’re thinking.

I’m a guy, and every time a woman says hello to me I don’t think she’s coming onto me. I just think she is being friendly. If I am attracted to her, I’ll come onto her and try to get to know her better.

I find that women who have trouble with this concept tend to worry too much about what other people think. The bottom line is this: Stop worrying about what other people think, and start enjoying yourself!

Just remember that men are just giant Scooby Doos on steroids. We’re goofy, we’re hairy, and the only thing missing is the dog collar with an "S" on it.

I promise that if you spend 30 days saying hello to random men wherever you went, that a good percentage of those men will stop and think, "Wow, a woman is actually making it easier to talk to her. What a novel approach!"

Stop waiting for men to start the conversation with you. Start making yourself available so you can finally have a social life.

So go out and say hello to every man you’re attracted to for the next thirty days. I guarantee if you do this, you will meet men. I guarantee this so much that I am willing to give away a FREE 200-page course if it doesn’t work for you.

I have thousands and I've never given one away... ;)

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