50 Things You Should Try For Hotter Sex
ProConnect

The Power of Hello

By

The Power of Hello
You had me at, "Hello."
The power of one simple word can go a long way and can even land you a first date!

Recently, one of my most stubborn clients who likes to challenge every level of my brain when coaching her, asked me this question:

"I'm having the hardest time getting my keister out of the house and practicing hello. I feel if I do what you tell me to do, which is saying hello to men, that they are going to think I’m coming onto them. And if they think that I’m coming on to them and they don’t respond, then they are going to talk about me all day long and I am never going to be able to show my face in public again."

More from YourTango: The "Secret" To Love And Connection: Awareness

So what did I tell my client, who happens to be a good friend and my favorite client, but who thinks she is a pain in the keister? By the way, I never used the word "keister" before her . . . but there’s something sort of "Leave It To Beaver" about it and I like it.

So what did I tell her to do? I told her to go out and whenever she sees a man, she needs to utter one of these variations of the world hello: hey, what’s up, how you doin', hello, or hi.

I then explained to her that some men are going to say hello back and some men are not. If she goes out and spends 30 days saying hello to every man that she sees that she is attracted to, the end result is going to be far greater than staying home and not talking to anybody.

Here’s another thing and it’s what is really ironic about my client. If you met her and talked to her, you would find out that she can’t shut up. I can get on the phone with her and we can yap for an hour about nothing, and I am the one who always ends the conversation. The one thing she cannot do is talk to men to whom she is attracted to.

If you are a woman who can’t talk to men and who doesn’t know how to smile at men, you are going to spend a lot of time by yourself. You HAVE to learn how to flirt so that men will approach you. Keep Reading...

More Dating Tips From YourTango:

8 Modern Dating Rules Every Single Should Know

More from YourTango: 6 Texting Shockers You Must Avoid!

5 Dating Tips For Finding The One

Flirting: Tips & Advice

Share this with someone you love (or even like a lot)!

Let's make it
FB official
Article contributed by
Advanced Member

David Wygant

Dating Coach

Looking forward to speaking with you!

David

www.davidwygant.com

Location: Marina Del Rey, CA
Credentials: Other
Other Articles/News by David Wygant:

The "Secret" To Love And Connection: Awareness

By

The quality of your social and love life depends on how self-aware you are. Let me explain a little bit. When you’re out in public, how much do you really notice? Are you walking around with a headset on listening to music? Are you texting people on your phone and missing life? Do you notice the little things around you? Do you notice the bugs on ... Read more

6 Texting Shockers You Must Avoid!

By

Most of you know how I feel about the digital age, and how it’s totally mutilated the way we communicate with each other. The phone call is a fading memory. These days it’s all about tweets, IM’s and text messages. Can you even remember what life was like before text messaging? But here’s the thing about text messaging. It’s so ... Read more

You Asked, He Answered: How Do I Tell If He's A Sex Addict?

By

Some of your friends don't know what you're worried about. The guy you're seeing is sexy, kind, loving and confident. On top of all that, he's crazy about you. However, something is bothering you. You have amazing sex. I mean, literally no man has ever made you orgasm like this man does. So what's the problem? He has an insatiable ... Read more

See More

Recent Expert Posts
Staying Dry

Letting Go Is Hard To Do

Healing your heart after divorce or loss of a spouse is worth the effort. Letting go is hard to do.

cozy up

Showing Love Through Touch

Touch is so incredibly important in relationships.

happiest

Listen Up, Darling: A Sex Kitten Is Never Hangry or Tired

Recently I shared eight surprising traits of a sex kitten. Each of those traits are ones that ...

Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Resources
How to find the right pro for you
10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

Therapist/Counselors: Who We Are & What We Do

What exactly does a therapist/counselor do and can they really help?

See more resources>
HOT STUFF!
FROM OUR PARTNERS