Speak This Language & Love Will Come Your Way


To find love, be love.

Do you ever hear yourself saying, “I really want to be in love. I want to fall in love. I want to meet a great man and fall in love. When I meet somebody, I'll be able to do some of the things I've always wanted to do, like maybe take that trip to Venice, Italy, or get that summerhouse.”

You’re speaking the language of love.

The universe listens when you wish to find love. It hears when you tell yourself you’re going to wait for love before doing all the things you want.

When you wish for what isn’t right now, you miss the chance to enjoy what IS. You're missing an opportunity to love every single day.

As all of you know, when I write these blogs, I dictate them. I do it when I'm driving, and right now, I'm driving down the Montauk Highway in Montauk NY.

It’s a beautiful place, and I'm absolutely in love with everything I see. I love everything from the crazy house that I just saw to another house with the buoys hanging off it.

I love my friend who's sitting next to me. I love the color of the sky on this moderately hazy summer night. I love the car I'm driving. But most importantly, I'm in love with my life. I'm in love with myself. It’s beyond power.

As I pull into this restaurant, I'm going to be in love with everybody I see, unless there's a long wait. Then, I'm going to be annoyed.

But I'm going to be in love with everything that I see, because creating love is a daily practice. Every single day, you need to create love.

In order to find love, you need to be love.

When you become love, you are love. When you are love, you get love. Life is not going to be better when you all of a sudden meet somebody and fall head over heels in love.

Sure, it's going to be an added benefit and yes, it's going to be fantastic. The truth is, every morning when you wake up you need to look in the mirror and say, “I love myself. “

“I love my life. I love the people around me. I love my backyard. I love the bushes. I love the earth. I love the car. I love my job, and I love the people.”

When you do that, you're out of ego. Ego is all about when I have love, I'm going to take that trip. Love is the most powerful drug. But love starts with yourself. Nurture yourself. Love yourself.

Be kind to yourself today. Do things for yourself. Go on that trip. Go out and do something. Spread the love every single day. And when you do that, you'll feel so alive, so powerful, so enlightened. Then the law of attraction will go to work for you.

The universe will deliver great love into your life; a love far greater than you've ever imagined. When two people who love themselves meet, you've got a love that's actually not full of ego.

It’s a love that can blossom, a love that a can survive, a love that can happen for real.  Love yourself deeply today. Love yourself deeply tomorrow.  Love everybody around you, and amazing things will happen.


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