I was having an interesting conversation with someone earlier, and she asked me, "David, how do you know if a man is good in bed?”
Do you know what tells you a man is good in bed?
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He pursues you with actions and not just words. Let's go deeper into that to see how it tells you a man is sexually gifted. You meet a guy for the very first time. He immediately approaches you and speaks to you confidently. There are no cheesy pick up lines or routines. He simply smiles, talks, and seems to relate to you from the get-go.
A man who's good in bed has enthusiasm in his voice, great eye contact, and good body language. He's not afraid when he talks to you. He literally could say anything when you first meet him, but you get a feeling about him right away. The reason why you have this feeling is because he's looking intently at you. He's figuring you out. He's trying to interpret you, and he's undressing you with his eyes.
A man who's good in bed will ask you for your phone number immediately. He's not going to hesitate, or wait for you to give him signs you’re interested in him. He’ll look you in the eyes and say, “Give me your number, let's get together, I want to talk to you more.”
A sexually confident guy will take you out, he'll call you right away, and he'll text you right away. He's got a plan when he takes you out. He listens carefully to what you say, and he crafts the dates based on things you're interested in. He's fun, he's different, and he’s dynamic.
He'll also kiss you at the end of a date, but he won't kiss you so much that his tongue is halfway down your throat. You know that horrible feeling when a guy makes you feel like you’re choking? If he’s a good lover he’ll kiss you gently, and actually mimic your kissing style.
He won’t rip at your clothes immediately after the first or second date. He's going to be into the slow seduction process because he knows that it takes time to heat you up. He understands seduction starts in your mind, travels to your heart, and only then does it hit your groin.
He pays attention to all the details and makes you feel like you've been claimed. He makes you feel like a woman who’s desirable. Think about it. Think about all the men that you've slept with. Think about the ones that were great in bed.
The chances are they resembled the guy I described above. The ultimate clue to a man who’s really great in bed?
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He’s a man who listens to David Wygant!
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