Frequently Asked Questions Volume 1

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Frequently Asked Questions Volume 1
Here are some of the most asked questions on love, dating and sex.


You need to let the dust settle. Be a great friend first and as soon as your friend has recovered she is fair game.


People are not lifetime posessions. If you and her are attracted to each other you need to respect your friend and when you do hook up you need to be open with your friend.


Do not let them ever find out through the grapevine that you hooked up with her, make sure that before you make the move you have the talk with your friend.


If he is a real friend he will be ok with it.


What's the best way to ask someone about their sexual history?


To be totally upfront with you about this. Someone's sexual history is not yours to judge.


As long as they are STD free and they know how to rock your world in bed, that is all that should concern you.


I enjoy someone that is experienced that way i don't have to waste my time teaching them.


Be open and stop judging other peoples past behavior's, it will yield far more interesting results not only in the bedroom but in your life.

 


I'm very attracted to someone but I don't want to make the first move. In what ways can I show that I'm interested without being too explicit? 

I am all about being upfront and playing no games.
Tell them that you are attracted to them and you like to go slow and get to know them before being intimate.


If a person does not respect that, than they are not worth your valuable time.


I'm ready to share my kinky sexual habits with my new partner, but I'm scared she'll be freaked out. Any advice? 

 


How kinky are you? I am all about being totally upfront with someone about your sexual habits.


If you get involved with someone who you are not sexually compatible with, you will just end up leading an alternative deviant life on the side.


My suggestion is to bring your kinkiness in slowly, why don't you experiment with your least threatening kinky act first.

 


This way you can see how she responds and move forward from there. Who knows she may just be kinkier than you.


I've been seeing this guy online for a while. We want to have cyber-sex. Any tips for an enjoyable first time?


You need to get each other super hot with dirty emails describing what you want to do to him when you see him.


Each email should go one step further in the seduction, that way you are driving him crazy and making him hit the send receive button like a mad man anticipating your next email.


Once you cant take it anymore bring the action to the phone so you can hear how hot you made each other.


I think cyber sex is all about foreplay but the payoff is mutual masturbation over the phone.


I just moved to a new city. How do I break into the dating scene?

 


The easiest and least threatening way to break into the dating scene in a new city is to use online dating.

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