The Best Way Singles Can Spice Up The Holidays

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The Best Way Singles Can Spice Up The Holidays [EXPERT]
This holiday season, stop searching for Mr. Right and try taking a lover instead!

It's not too early to start putting out your Christmas wish list. Look around now, Mercedes-Benz is already advertising on TV about the holiday sales event.

Nothing beats a good Mercedes for a Christmas present. Good old German engineering under your tree. A powerful, strong car to whisk you all over the place this winter. That's cool and all but ... How about experiencing something even more powerful?

 

How about a lover for Christmas? It's the last seven weeks of the year. Why not try a new lover for the rest of the year? We spend so much time alone, and so many women spend so much time thinking and wanting and waiting for Mr. Right. What about Mr. Right Now for the holiday season?

What's wrong with ending the year full of intimate moments? I think it's a great idea. For all the women that have had a tough year, I think the only thing you can ask Santa Claus for this year is a lover.

A man that will take care of all your needs, wants, desires. Call it a faux-boyfriend or just a holiday romance. We spend so much of the time depriving ourselves of so many of our basic needs — our primal physical needs, our primal needs to be with somebody, our primal needs to have great sex.

It's time we expand our horizons a little bit or maybe when we go to the mall and we sit on Santa's lap, maybe it's time just to ask Santa what you really need and what you really want. If the world had lovers this Christmas, it'd be a happier place.

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This article was originally published at David Wygant for Women . Reprinted with permission.
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