10 Follow-Up Tips After The First Date

By David Wygant. Posted on Sep 17th 2012.

Here's what to do after the first date to make sure you get the second one.

8. Compliment her once about the way she looks. Don’t tell her all night long how beautiful she is, because she will start to think that you’ve never before been out with a woman as beautiful as her, and you’ll start to lose your power.

9. Instead of complimenting her looks, compliment her mind. Bond with her mentally and emotionally and physically, and she will bond with you in ways that you’ve never experienced before!

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10. Don’t agree with everything she says. Challenge her mind - don’t just agree with her. If you agree with everything she says, she’ll look at you as being weak. If she sees you as being weak, she will no longer be attracted to you . . . and you will no longer get a second look or a second date. I’m not telling you to be confrontational. I’m telling you to be open, honest and real.

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Follow some of these tips, and I will assure you that you will get past that first date far more than you have in the past.

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