How to Become a Professional Coach

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How to Become a Professional Coach
What is coaching? Can you become a coach? Let's find out.

What is a "Coach?"

The International Coach Federation (ICF) has defined professional coaching as follows:

"Coaching is partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential. Coaching honors the client as the expert in his/her life and work and believes that every client is creative, resourceful, and whole."

The Client-Coach Partnership

As a coach, you "partner" with your client in the most literal sense of the word. Yes, you know more "stuff" about your area of expertise. That's fine and the way it's supposed to be. But you don't know more "stuff" about your client than he or she does. And so coaching only works when both parties form a genuine partnership built on mutual sharing, collaboration and cooperation. This is of particular importance and sometimes difficult to do when you think you have the solutions and answers for your client.

So what do professional coaches do? They provide an ongoing partnership that helps their clients produce fulfilling results in their personal and professional lives. Ultimately, coaches help people improve their performances and enhance the quality of their lives.

And how do they do it? Coaches listen and customize their approach to individual client needs. They believe that their job is to support their client to enhance the skills, resources, and creativity that they already have; the true embodiment of "empowerment."

In short, coaches:

- Discover, clarify, and align with what the client wants to achieve;
- Encourage client self-discovery;
- Elicit client-generated solutions and strategies; and
- Hold the client responsible and accountable for actions and results.

Basic Coaching Skills

As a therapist, counselor, educator or consultant you might need to know a lot about a problem- what causes it, strategies for treating it, etc. As a coach, believe it or not, you don't need to be an expert in the focus of the coaching, you just need to apply your coaching skills expertly. For example, you don't need to know how to build a house to coach a building contractor who wants to build better houses. Your client will teach you everything you need to know about their problem and solution as you are coaching them.

Here are 12 basic coaching skills that you'll use and re-use with your clients:

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David Steele, MA, LMFT
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