Why He's Looking At You And Thinking 'Threesome'

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Why He's Looking At You And Thinking 'Threesome'
If one hot woman in your bed is good, then two hot women is even better, right?

Of course, for most men, this is a dream that will never be realized. And perhaps, it's better that way. The reality of threesomes rarely live up to the hype. And even when they do, misunderstandings, jealousy, regret and feelings of betrayal often come into play, putting a damper on the proceedings or the memory thereof. Nonetheless, as long as there are horny men (are there any other kind?) and women they find attractive, our noble quest for a ménage-a-trois will continue, unabated. 

It is our pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And though we know we will probably never find it, we will always forge ahead (mentally, at least) as if this lusty reward is just around the next corner. And if it's not, a Starbucks probably is. So if we can't live our dreams, at least we can console ourselves with a caramel macchiato and undress the comely barista with our eyes.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who's worked on some of television's best shows.

For more information on David or to get a copy of his free report on "The Three Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship," go to www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who’s worked on some of television’s favorite shows.

For more information on David or to get a copy of his free report on "The 3 Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship," go to www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

Location: Porter Ranch, CA
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