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Should She Pursue Former Crush...20 Years Later?
After two decades, is the spark still there? And does his patience indicate respect or disinterest?

If this has reached you somewhat "after-the-fact," I do hope that you decided to "go for it" with him, and that things worked out well.  If, however, you have yet to make the leap, I encourage you to do so, for if you don't, I fear you will always wonder what might have been.  Remember: When we look back on our lives, it is usually not the things we did that we regret most, it's the things we didn't do, the words we didn’t say, the path we didn’t take.  Carpe diem!  

© 2012 David M. Matthews.  All rights reserved.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who's worked on some of television's best shows.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who’s worked on some of television’s favorite shows.

For more information on David or to get a copy of his free report on "The 3 Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship," go to www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

Location: Porter Ranch, CA
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Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support
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