That said, do you really want a future with a guy who prefers fantasy women with penises over you with your decidedly more traditional feminine parts? It seems to me that you deserve a man who actually desires to be intimate with you, and doesn’t just occasionally “throw you one” to keep you hanging in there with him. Perhaps it’s time for both of you to take an honest look at your relationship, since it seems that neither of you are particularly satisfied with your situation. Though you may truly love each other, it may still be necessary for you to go your separate ways so that you might both be free to openly pursue the male, female, or she-male of your respective dreams.
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