The Great Toilet Seat Debate

By David M. Matthews. Posted on Nov 22nd 2012.

Why can't guys just learn to leave the damn seat down? Is that too much to ask? Maybe it is.

I hope this has helped resolve one of the most insidious lavatory conflicts facing us today. Perhaps this recognition of diversity of needs coupled with personal responsibility will allow men and women everywhere to be able to weather these “ups” and “downs” in an environment of good humor and mutual respect. And if we can successfully achieve this kind of harmonious co-existence, could world peace be far behind?

Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who's worked on some of television's best shows.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who’s worked on some of television’s favorite shows.

For more information on David or to get a copy of his free report on "The 3 Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship," go to www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

Location: Porter Ranch, CA

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Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support

Website: http://www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com

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