7 Ways To Get Your Man Fired Up About Your Vacation

By David M. Matthews. Posted on Jun 25th 2012.

Can't get him excited about planning your vacation? Here are a few tips to help get him on board.

7. Don’t stretch out the planning over an extended period of time. Guys like to see results and we become impatient and uneasy if the process becomes a seemingly endless procedure. If we can accomplish the whole thing in one sitting – beautiful. Afterward we can celebrate with sex…and a frosty beverage.

So you see, you can get guys into the spirit of “getting ready for vacations.” It just takes a little strategizing, preparation and, well…planning. So I guess for you, it’s “win-win.” Now that’s a plan!

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who's worked on some of television's favorite shows.

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Besides being a relationship coach and author of the controversial book, "Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think," David M. Matthews is an Emmy-winning TV Writer/Producer who’s worked on some of television’s favorite shows.

For more information on David or to get a copy of his free report on "The 3 Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship," go to www.EveryManSeesYouNaked.com.

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