Dating & Relationship Coaches: Who We Are & What We Do


Dating & Relationship Coaches: Who We Are & What We Do
What exactly is a dating or relationship coach and can they really help?

What Is A Dating Or Relationship Coach?
Think back to high school and your soccer, debate team or gymnastics coach. What did they do? Dating and relationship coaches perform a similar function. They are trained to listen and observe, and then customize the best course of action depending on a client's specific wants and needs. They help clients map out clear-cut objectives and create a game plan. They encourage clients to set their own goals and priorities and then take action using skills and strategies they teach. Coaches support clients and encourage self-awareness as they try to reach their goals.

Dating and relationship coaches offer third-party, educated and experienced views on what you are going through as you transverse the often treacherous world of dating and relationships. Talking to friends and family is helpful but their view of the situation is skewed because they care about and know you. A dating/relationship coach's value is the collaborative and unbiased relationship between you and your coach that will maximize the full potential of your love life.


Why Do People Use Dating And Relationship Coaches?
A relationship coach has tools at his or her disposal to help both singles and couples have successful relationships. By building an open forum in which communication can flourish, coaches can help you get the relationship you want. A coach can help make a good relationship better and possibly save one headed for disaster.

Coaches who specialize in dating and relationship help clients demystify what it means to find, nurture and sustain a healthy relationship. Some specialize in areas like dating etiquette or dating intelligence and many offer pointers to help manage the online dating market. Uniformly, they all help strengthen and create dating and relationship skills.

This pro will talk about topics ranging from interpersonal skills, the importance of maintaining a positive attitude, romance, flirting, etc., and discuss strategies to change and reshape your life. They will also help you identify patterns and behaviors that many be negatively affecting your relationships and dating potential.

What Issues Can A Dating Or Relationship Coach Help Me With?
Coaching is designed to help you understand what is going on in your love life and change what is not working. This pro will not "fix" your partner or any other person, but will help you address behaviors that are not working. Your coach will offer guidance and feedback to enhance your chances at success in intimate relationships.

As a supportive person in your life, your coach will promote personal growth with an emphasis on setting specific goals and achieving those goals for the desired outcome. During your sessions with this pro, you will learn to take action. You will focus on accountability and how to achieve positive results to get the love you want. Finally, your coach can help you see past issues with more clarity and help you break though relationship barriers that have kept your love life in a holding pattern.

What Can I Expect When I Work With A Dating Or Relationship Coach?
During the first session, you will share with your coach your specific objectives you hope to accomplish, and decide if you and the coach are a good fit. This process may involve sharing your dating/relationship history and exploring areas of your life that are not working. The coaching process is meant to be collaborative and action-oriented; clients often set goals with clear objectives and delivery dates as well as weekly homework assignments.

You can expect the coaching relationship to be characterized by the principles of respect, support, truthfulness, honesty, growth, and fulfillment. Coaches may use individual coaching, couples' sessions, group sessions, workshops, and field trips. You will be observed and critiqued in a variety of settings, and you'll receive constructive feedback on your progress.

Training & Credentials
Many service providers use the title of "coach." Multiple coaching schools and training programs are available, allowing for many options when an individual decides to obtain certifications or credentials. Organizations such as the 14-year-old International Coach Federation have been created to advance the coaching profession by setting standards for coaching, providing independent certification, and building a network of credentialed coaches both in the US and in other countries.

Nuts & Bolts
The services provided by dating and relationship coaches range from personal, one-on-one consultations, to workshops and seminars. A large number of dating and relationship coaches work over the phone or via e-mail. The first session will usually run from 60 to 90 minutes so the partnership can be established and the coaching process begun. Follow up appointments will consist of weekly 30- to 90-minute sessions. The duration of time you spend with this pro is up to you. It might last three to six months or go as long as one to two years.

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