And lastly, don't forget what lingerie does for how YOU feel. I often joke about life being too short for ugly underwear. Think about it – do you really feel ready to conquer the world when you're wearing a ratty old bra and granny panties? NO! More likely, you feel drab and unsexy, just like your underthings. But comfortable lingerie that looks great on you? It is an instant confidence booster, and that is super sexy to both men and women.
We all know how hard it is to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. The easiest way to spice it up is by coming home with new panties, stockings, a negligee, or bustier – it's almost like a sexy stranger came home just to seduce him! It makes your sex life feel like something brand new by stimulating him visually and prompting that visceral response you used to have to each other when everything was new.
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With that in mind, there are two ways to buy lingerie. You can either shop alone with his input, or bring him along for the ride! Both have great benefits – if you text him while you're out shopping solo, he'll have a say and spend all his time just WAITING to get you home so he can see what you got. If you bring him with you, you'll get to try on every little thing and watch as he gets more and more turned on.
Not only is he excited because he gets to see you strutting your stuff (remember, men are visual creatures!), he also knows that in short order he's going to be getting it on with you. By simply wearing lingerie, you’re creating anticipation and upping the novelty. And that makes him feel special!
And I promise you, men do NOT see the stretch marks or all the other little imperfections we see in ourselves. They see that you picked out, paid for, and put on a sexy little number with him (and his penis) in mind. You look fabulously sexy, and I know he will appreciate you for it.
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More about me: I am the owner of an online romance store www.BlissConnection.com and have been selling sex toys and lingerie for the last 10 years. I just opened a brand new plus size lingerie store in San Jose called Curvy Girl Lingerie. We focus on plus size lingerie and helping women to get in touch with all of the pleasure your body is capable of!