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Why Don't More Women Talk About Masturbation?

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Why Don't More Women Talk About Masturbation?
We all do it, ladies.
Masturbation is a great stress reliever ... so why do we still act shameful about it?

The saddest part about all of this is a woman's clitoris has only one function — it is there purely to give us pleasure. The clit solely exists to bring a woman to climax. It has no other purpose, just the one important function. So why all the embarrassment? The penis has multiple functions and men don't seem to have any embarrassment about using it for self-pleasure.

Though the stigma persists, at least there are some women out there who found the bravery to talk about the subject. Cyndi Lauper sang "She Bop" and The Divinyls sang "I Touch Myself." Like me, Cyndi believes that "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" and "there ain't no law against it yet." Granted, those songs came out back in the 80s. But, more recently Missy Elliott's song "Oops! (Oh My)" also helped bring the topic to light and put a more positive spin on it.

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So now, I have a special new mission. I want to get women masturbating and talking about masturbating. I want to work to elevate the concept of masturbation and help women to let go of the stigma that goes along with self-pleasure. Whether you prefer vibrators or your own two hands, get home, get comfortable and get off!

More about me: I am the owner of an online romance store www.BlissConnection.com and have been selling sex toys and lingerie for the last ten years. I just opened a brand new plus size lingerie store in San Jose called Curvy Girl Lingerie. We focus on plus size lingerie and helping women to get in touch with all of the pleasure your body is capable of!

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Chrystal Bougon Sex Toy Expert, Resident Curvy Girl &  Pleasure Coach.

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