Ladies: It's Time to Stop the Negative Self-Talk


Ladies: It's Time to Stop the Negative Self-Talk
Curvy girls, athletic girls, skinny girls, fat girls. Stop the negative self talk and love yourself.

I told her to BELIEVE IT. In my limited experience, many men aren’t super expressive and they don’t just spew out compliments willy-nilly. If it doesn’t sound like some canned pickup line, odds are he means exactly what he says. Think about it – even if he’s just trying to get in your pants, he thinks you’re sexy and decided to tell you.

It’s still a real compliment.



Now’s the time to take action, ladies and gents. I challenge you to actively focus on positive self-talk whenever those strangers’ criticisms hit too close to home. Silence that inner critic. If your inner voice is not lifting you up - stop it in it's tracks. I tell me inner mean girl "SILENCE" and think about something I love about myself. It takes work, but it's worthy it.

It’s time to remember what makes you beautiful (or handsome, for the fellas), and it starts with you!

More about me: I am the owner of an online romance store and have been selling sex toys and lingerie for the last 10 years. I just opened a brand new plus size lingerie store in San Jose called Curvy Girl Lingerie. We focus on plus size lingerie and helping women to get in touch with all of the pleasure your body is capable of!

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Curvy Girl Chrystal Bougon


Chrystal Bougon Sex Toy Expert, Resident Curvy Girl &  Pleasure Coach.

Founder of Award Winning Radio Show Host, "Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex"

Location: San Jose, CA
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