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Can You Get Addicted To Your Vibrator?

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YourTango Expert Chrystal Bougon weighs in on this sexy subject!

Remember, vibrators and other sex toys are made to stimulate particular parts of the body. they are specifically designed to reach places most tongues, fingers and other bodily parts can't. They also give you power over your own orgasm. With a toy, you control every movement, the depth and the speed. You can hit the same spot whenever you want with no fumbling and no guess work. Who doesn't want a guaranteed orgasm?

Addiction suggests something harmful or wrong, and frankly, there is nothing harmful about using toys as a means to improve your sex life. People can definitely become accustomed to using sex toys, but there is not a withdrawal period if you stop, and you can easily switch back to masturbating or more traditional sex and still reach climax without sex toys.

My opinion? If using a vibrator every time you have sex means you have an orgasm every time you have sex, then everyone wins. He gets off, she gets off. Where is the harm in that?

More About me: I am the owner of an online romance store www.BlissConnection.com and have been selling sex toys and lingerie for the last ten years. I just opened a brand new plus size lingerie store in San Jose called Curvy Girl Lingerie. We focus on plus size lingerie and helping women to get in touch with all of the pleasure your body is capable of!

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Chrystal Bougon Sex Toy Expert, Resident Curvy Girl &  Pleasure Coach.

Founder of http://www.BlissConnection.com Award Winning Radio Show Host, "Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex" http://www.Bliss-Radio.com

Location: San Jose, CA
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