Drs. Ruth Schwartz & Michelle Murrain - Relationship Coach, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Hypnotherapist, Marriage Educator, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Matchmaker - Healdsburg, CA
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Drs. Ruth Schwartz & Michelle Murrain (PhD)

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What Robin Williams' Death Says About You And Me

Robin Williams' death shocked many of us. It's always shocking to glimpse the depth of another person's vulnerability and pain — particularly when it's someone we've admired and placed on a pedestal. But it's a very important kind of shock to feel — a good shock, if ...

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Why You'll Never Meet The Right Partner

I'm sorry for that alarming headline, but the truth is, most of the women we hear from are a lot more focused on "finding Ms. Right" than on becoming Ms. Right - i.e., learning what it actually takes to create lasting intimacy, and clearing your blocks to really letting that intimacy in. (We ...

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10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Sex

If your sex education was typical, you probably grew up hearing about "the birds and the bees" or the stork that brought you. Although if you were really lucky, perhaps you had parents who held their breath and sputtered something about penises and vaginas, and sperm and eggs in a five minute sex ...

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Has The Damage Already Been Done?

We are both in our late 30's, we dated for about 2 months last year and then reconnected recently.  I am very much in love with her and have never been more willing to work,  learn, and be more vulnerable. But I am devastated by our steady decline. I struggle with PEP, she struggles with PAP. We ...

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"I'd Break Up With Myself If I Could."

Dear CG, My problem is that I can't seem to accept imperfection. Every time I date someone, I find something wrong with her. She's overweight, she's not happy enough, she drinks too much, she's too messy, she's too neat, she's too rigid, she looks too gay (I know that one isn't ...

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Drs. Ruth Schwartz & Michelle Murrain

Quick Stats

Credentials:

PhD

Time in Practice:

10 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Divorce Recovery Coach

Hypnotherapist

Marriage Educator

Marriage/Couples Counselor

Matchmaker

I offer my services:

At my office

Telephone

By Email

Via Skype

Via a webcam

I am fluent in:

English

Spanish

Articles by Drs. Ruth Schwartz & Michelle Murrain
Beachy Keen

What Robin Williams' Death Says About You And Me

Four key life-lessons we can draw from this glimpse into the pain of a man we thought we knew.

Smooches

Why You'll Never Meet The Right Partner

Give up the search - and figure out how to actually create love instead.

10 Things A Sex Education Class Should Have Taught You

10 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Sex

Unfortunately they don't teach you about your sexual fantasies in high school.

Comfort

Has The Damage Already Been Done?

Do you think it's too late for you and your partner to work on your relationship?

teen talk

"I'd Break Up With Myself If I Could."

Finding peace with yourself, love, and with life.

Drs. Ruth Schwartz & Michelle Murrain

All Specialties

Abandonment, Attachment Issues, Body Image, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Codependency, Communication Problems, Conflict Management, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce Rehabilitation, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Forgiveness, Grief, Loss, & Bereavement, Identity Issues, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, LGBT Issues (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), Life Transitions, Matchmaking, Online Dating, Post Traumatic Stress / Trauma, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Trust Issues, Worry