Look In The Mirror


Look In The Mirror
There is a time in our life when we say "ENOUGH,I am tired of looking for love." Make the change!

 Have you released the past pain created by relationships that have ended?
Have you let go of the ones who have hurt you, abandoned you or disappointed you?

Look in the mirror and ask yourself these questions…
Was I or am I valued?  Do I value myself?
Was I or am I respected?  Do I respect myself?
Who makes me feel unloved or not good about myself?  Do I feel love in my heart?

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While you are looking in the mirror ….look into your eyes and feel.
Make a vow to yourself that you are not going to be in an unhealthy relationship any longer. Say out loud. “No more….enough!.... I am good enough and I am worthy of love….I don’t need anyone’s love and approval.  I value and respect myself.  The love is in me.”

See yourself in the mirror and feel your heart open to yourself….fall in love.

Make a change and start living connected to all the love that you are.
Only you can shift and heal your own world.

Once you make this change within breathe....connect to your own love.From this sacred place you will attract authentic love in your life.

Inspired by the words  from the song by the great Michael Jackson

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Man In The Mirror by Michael Jackson

I'm Starting With The Man In
The Mirror
I'm Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
(If You Wanna Make The
World A Better Place)
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change
(Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change



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