Why You Should Date More Than One Guy At A Time


Why You Should Date More Than One Guy At A Time [EXPERT]
One expert's opinion about finding love while dating multiple men ... all at once.

Here are some reasons why dating more than one guy at a time is a very smart strategy to find lasting love.

1. It's fun and exciting;

2. It's an effective way to find the right mate;

3. It's a smart way to boost your confidence and improve your dating skills;

4. It keeps you from focusing on just one man before its appropriate; and

5. It prevents you from being overly available, which, in turn, makes you more attractive.

Many women fall into the trap of wanting to see how their one guy plays out. This explains how you can get hooked up with a partner that's not right, because you focused in before you knew enough about him. My advice as a dating coach is to do your best to avoid getting emotionally attached early on to keep your heart open25 Best Bits Of Dating Advice From Mom

When I met my husband (number 30), I was dating Geoff (number 29). He was a really nice guy, and I was totally enjoying getting to know him. But I met Paul's sister who thought her brother would like me. I went out on a blind date with him and then proceed to date them both for about 5 weeks until I could see how things would shake out.

This saved me, because even though I like Geoff a lot, Paul was a much better match for me. We married in May of 2000.

If you are just getting out there or have been dating one man at a time, let me encourage you to try volume dating. It takes the pressure off and can make dating so much more exciting. And, meeting lots of men means you are far more likely to find the right one for you.5 Dating Tips For Introverts

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Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

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The Dating Coach for Women Over 40

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