Why Dating Your Polar Opposite Could Be Good For You

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Why Dating Your Polar Opposite Could Be Good For You
Don’t cross him off your list yet! Compatibility is about more than common interests and hobbies.

Turns out we are a great pair! We share a similar view of the world, enjoy each other's sense of humor and benefit from well synced bio-rhythms which makes vacationing and weekends go smoothly. Sometimes the little things in life are what make you happy and compatible.

Here's a plus about my love being different than me: he tempers my Type A personality. I'm always in a hurry to get from point A to B, but my husband takes the long way home to see the sunset over the water. I've learned a lot from him and enjoy the differences which have enriched my life.

The point is that having hobbies in common could be nice, but might not be the best predictor of compatibility on a first date. Think beyond kayaking and country music to figure out if a guy has potential. There is much to be gained from dating your opposite as you discover new things to enjoy in a loving partnership that can last a lifetime.

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