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Get Flirty! 14 Body Language Dos & Don'ts

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Get Flirty! 14 Body Language Dos & Don'ts [EXPERT]
The proof is in the pudding!
Learn what messages your body sends when you haven't even uttered a word.

Given my 10 years working as a dating coach with thousands of women, I've gathered some fabulous evidence that flirting and body language work!  Let me share a story to prove this point.

Two of my clients, Beth and Connie, both 49 and divorced, took my flirting class and decided to go to a bar and try it out. These two women were both very "type A" career women that normally didn't interact with men and to tell the truth, weren't that warm and friendly. How To Turn Off A Man On Your First Date

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They came back to class the next week excited with girlish glee to share their stellar results. Beth had two men ask for her phone number, which she claimed had never happened before in a bar or anywhere and Connie was asked out on a date.

These two women were delighted and astonished by what a little flirting could do. But as their dating coach, let me share another potent secret with you: The biggest change in their behavior was that they were open to and paid attention to the men. They decided to be friendly and interested.

Normally, Beth and Connie would have looked down their noses at any man who had the nerve to approach them while drinking a glass of wine at a bar. But on this night, they looked for opportunities to connect with men. And voila — it worked.

I hope you'll try some of these proven flirting methods to attract and meet more men today! You'll discover how easy and productive flirting really is.

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Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

Dating Coach

The Dating Coach for Women Over 40

Get my free ebook 5 Big Turnoffs that Drive Men Away here.
Author of MANifesting Mr. Right, Why Can't I Find Love and How to Sizzle Vs. Fizzle Online

Location: Milford, CT
Credentials: MBA
Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support
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