Why Ranting Online About Your Divorce Ruins Your Chance At Love

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dating after divorce: why ranting online ruins your chances for love
Venting can be the best remedy for a broken heart ... until you take those complaints online.

According to the law of attraction, "like attracts like." What that means is by focusing on what you don't want can actually attract more of what you don't want! Go ahead, say your peace. Then, please let it go and move on. Rather than clinging to your past hurt and disappointments, open yourself up to new possibilities.

When you can let go, you know your healing process has moved to the next level. And that level is where you can once again find love. Underneath all the anger, you know that's exactly what you want, right? As your dating coach, that is what I want for you too. I dream of you finding a new and better love. I want you to find a man who is supportive, fun, loyal, healthy, successful and confident, with a great sense of humor and a really cute smile. A man who has time for you, respects you and accepts you as you accept him.

When you are ready to move past anger and be the love you want, you become a magnetic force for love that can't be denied. And love will be attracted to your life. I've seen it over and over with my clients. The love you want and deserve is not only out there for you, but completely possible. Focus on allowing it to come into your life now. Complaining about what is and negativity never make anyone happier. So, the next time you see other people ranting about their exes and you feel the urge to send out a bitter tweet, think again.

If you or someone you know is struggling to find love, I am ready to help with expert dating advice and coaching. Get more tips by downloading my FREE book 5 Big Turnoffs That Drive Men Away. Have questions for me? Join the Inner Circle call on the first Monday of the month. My goal is to help you find love with the right man as quickly as possible and avoid the many potential pitfalls along the way.

This article was originally published at It's Never Too Late for Love . Reprinted with permission.
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Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

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The Dating Coach for Women Over 40

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