Will you meet men who aren't right for you? Of course you will! The same is true for any method of meeting singles. So what? If you don't take the chance, you won't meet anyone. Like professional hockey player, Wayne Gretzky says, "You miss 100% of the shots you never take." Dating requires meeting a lot of prospects so you can find a good match. Kissing lots of frogs as they say.
The Best Dating Advice Ever
To me, the best dating advice to find love after 50 was offered by the sister-in-law of the woman interviewed by NPR. She wisely suggested that Vicki, "have a thick skin, a sense of humor and try to have fun." Beautifully said and superb advice. If you can follow those words of wisdom, you'll do well in your search for love.
8 Big Advantages for Meeting Lots of Men
The more you can simply relax and get used to meeting new people, the better your chances for finding the one.
- You'll look more confident which heightens your appeal
- You'll learn how to get in and out of situations with ease and grace
- You'll feel more at ease which helps your date feel more at ease too (remember, men choose women who make them feel good about themselves )
- You'll build or improve your conversation skills
- You'll practice your flirting and learn to rely on your feminine charm
- You'll discover the abundance of single men out there
- You'll stop hyper-focusing on each date, fretting over if he is the right one for you
- You'll recover from disappointment and rejection more easily as you realize there's always another man to meet
Online dating is the biggest resource to singles over 50. You may have decided those sites are a curse, but they are actually a blessing when you learn how to use them more effectively. Keep in mind 20% of all relationships now start online. And you could be next!
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