Thankfully, by the time I met Benjamin, I had done enough interpersonal work on myself to let go of my need to always be right so that I could become a real partner and teammate in a relationship. I was ready to stop fighting to get my own needs met and become a life partner with the right man. Are You Ready To Be Friends ... With Benefits?
When you are with someone you love with all your heart and you fully trust that he loves you as much as you love him, you will value his needs as much as much as you value your own.
When this happens, you won't be able to fight. When we fight with someone, we have to minimize the other person's needs, values and desires in order to win. When you value desire peace, harmony and playfulness in your relationship rather than being right, you will find yourself automatically defaulting to a teammate mentality.