How To Make Your Man Your Love Slave

She transformed her Inner Self and as a result, she transformed her marriage.

By JoLynn Braley — Written on Dec 27, 2012

What if your man became your love slave? How would that make you feel?

Before I tell you how to make your man your love slave, I must confess that I am not formally trained as a relationship coach. Rather, my expertise is permanent weight loss. I feel inspired by my clients. Over and over again, their relationships — along with their bodies — transform right before their eyes. But why?

The reason people struggle endlessly with food and weight is not because of their diet and exercise programs. Sure, being overweight is caused by overeating and lack of exercise, but that's only 10% of the problem. Ninety percent of the problem is mindset.

In order to achieve a "weight loss mindset" (which leads to permanent weight loss), my clients must first build a healthy relationship with the most important person in their lives: themselves!

So, for example, how did my inspiring client Katie make her husband her love slave? Did she tell him to start treating her differently? Did she read relationship books and follow their rules? Did she go to marriage counseling or hire a relationship coach? No, she did none of the above.

Katie hired me to mentor her to achieve permanent weight loss and, in doing so, she used my Inner Self Tools to create the most wonderful relationship she's ever had in her entire life — with herself.

Now, Katie shines. Her children ask her if she's gotten taller, which is an indication of her energy transformation and her high level of self-confidence. Her husband does all sorts of things for her that he didn't do before, without her asking him to.

He's sends her flirty texts during the day, gives her an abundance of loving attention and he even bought her a beautiful box of candles, something he knows she loves. Katie feels such inner-peace and confidence about herself now that she just naturally attracts love and affection from her husband.

You see, Katie is finally able to receive the love that was always there for her. It's not that her husband was a "bad husband" before. In fact, their marriage was good all along. But today their marriage is nothing like it was in the past. Todaytheir marriage is off the charts when it comes to love, fun and caring for one another.

This transformation occurred because Katie did the inner-work that only she could do. Sure, I mentor her and lead her through very powerful exercises, but then Katie takes action using the daily tools I provide. These tools help Katie maintain her mindset so she can continue to grow her relationship with herself, as well as to continue reaping the benefits of her marriage .... not to mention her relationships with her children and friends.

Here's the bottom line: Everything begins with you. Once you have a loving relationship with yourself, everything else transforms. The permanent weight loss? That's just a bonus.