He's sends her flirty texts during the day, gives her an abundance of loving attention and he even bought her a beautiful box of candles, something he knows she loves. Katie feels such inner-peace and confidence about herself now that she just naturally attracts love and affection from her husband.
You see, Katie is finally able to receive the love that was always there for her. It's not that her husband was a "bad husband" before. In fact, their marriage was good all along. But today their marriage is nothing like it was in the past. Todaytheir marriage is off the charts when it comes to love, fun and caring for one another.
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This transformation occurred because Katie did the inner-work that only she could do. Sure, I mentor her and lead her through very powerful exercises, but then Katie takes action using the daily tools I provide. These tools help Katie maintain her mindset so she can continue to grow her relationship with herself, as well as to continue reaping the benefits of her marriage .... not to mention her relationships with her children and friends.
Here's the bottom line: Everything begins with you. Once you have a loving relationship with yourself, everything else transforms. The permanent weight loss? That's just a bonus.
So, how can you make your man your love slave? Experience a core transformation in your relationship with yourself; that's where it all begins.
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