So be more expressive. When she is cooking dinner, tell her how sexy she looks in her work clothes. When she comes home from a day out with the girls, notice her new pedicure and compliment her. When she is not showering that day and wears her hair in a pony tail, be sure to whisper in her ear how how she looks "au naturale." If you notice the details and give her sincere compliments - she will pay more attention to those little details and will reward you in the best way. SINCERE FLATTERY WILL GET YOU EVERYWHERE.
2. HELP MORE. I talk to thousands of women every year via our Pleasure Parties and our online romance store and the one thing I hear women saying is the reason they don't have more sex is because they are TOO TIRED. They are so sleep deprived, they would rather sleep an extra 15 minutes then to be intimate. So, my tip to you is HELP MORE.
Google PORN FOR WOMEN some time. You know what you will find? Sexy pics of men cleaning the toilet, folding laundry, unloading the dishwasher.....YES. We find that HOT HOT HOT. We call it "choreplay" rather then "foreplay." A woman who feels bitter and tired is not going to be that scorching hot VIXEN in the bedroom you are dreaming of. If you help her out a bit more with the kids, the house, or whatever is stressing her out - she will have more space in her brain to think creatively and plan romantic or kinky nights of fun for the two of you. I hear it over and over again, gents. They are too tired to remember to put on lingerie or plan a naughty date night...so help some more and it will go a LONG way to a more satisfied and less bitter sex partner.
3. MORE ORAL for her and if she is really really not comfortable with receiving (i mean she is truly not comfortable) then you must insist that you always give her an orgasm first and then you have yours or have one together later. (We know you will get yours one way or another.) Most women need a warm up. We are teenaged girls at heart. 4. MORE KISSING We like to kiss, make out, dry hump, you have to engage our brains in this endeavour. Our mouth is the closest sex organ to our brain...use it for more then just recieving oral. Be sure to utilize our mouth, neck, ears, brain, and give us an orgasm first. I am sure you have noticed on more then one occasion that women become MUCH more expressive and responsive to hot sex once they've had one small orgasm. (We tend to get enthusiastic once we have been included in the process! Think ravenous, vampy, nasty wife here, guys. Especially if you are kissing her neck saying sweet and naughty things in her ear. Women are AURAL men are VISUAL.)