Never Go To The Opposite Sex For Relationship Advice.

By

Never Go To The Opposite Sex For Relationship Advice.
When you need relationship advice going to the opposite sex is not the best option!

Have you ever had a relationship where your partner has gone behind your back and talked about you and your relationship with them to one of their friends, who just happened to be of the opposite sex? I have had this happen on numerous occasions. And I still can not fathom why this happens and why mates think this is the best way to get advice about your relationship.

 

 

When men start talking to their female friends about their relationship this will inevitably bring more problems to the relationship than the existing issue he had. People always have motives regardless if they have a stake in the relationship or not. My recent ex went to a woman who I don’t even know and have never met, but I know of her through mutual friends. He went to this person asking for advice. And what he got probably wasn’t what he was expecting. This girl was friends with another woman who had feelings for my boyfriend.

So with that said it should have been common sense that she probably wasn’t the best person to go to for advice. Especially since her motive was to get us broken up and for her friend to move right on in. Unfortunately for him he apparently didn’t have the common sense to know that this was his friends motive.

 

Relationships deserve respect and if you aren’t going to give it the respect it deserves then you should stay single until you are prepared for an adult relationship. Bringing in another woman into your relationship will not be ok with 90% of the women out there because they will feel threatened by that woman. A relationship consists of two people not three.

So if you need advice about your relationship where should you turn? You should go directly to the source! Your partner. Communication is the biggest issue in relationships and if you can not communicate with your partner on heavy issues or even light issues then your relationship will never make it. If you really want your relationship to work then I suggest going to counseling to deal with your communication problems. You may not be able to save the relationship you are currently in, but it might help your next one.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Christy Goldstein

Relationship Coach

Christy Goldstein

Ask me about my free strategic sessions!

http://www.christygoldsteinsloveadvice.com

Also check out www.singleswarehouse.co.uk

www.nouveaudating.com

http://simplysxy.com

 

Location: Columbus, OH
Credentials: CLC, CPC, CRC
Specialties: Dating/Being Single Support, Empowering Women, Sexuality
Other Articles/News by Christy Goldstein:

6 Steps To Achieve Before You Look For Your Life Partner

By

Dating is a hard thing to do regardless of race, gender, religious backgrounds, etc. But, if you are truly ready to have a partner in your life and are ready for marriage these are a few dating tips you need to think about before you start to look for your partner. 1. Job: Most people have a job, but if it’s not paying you what you will need to ... Read more

My Mom Didn't Listen So Our New Family Turned Into A Nightmare

By

Having a broken or should I say blended family is normal these days, but what if the person your parent is in love with isn't as he appears. My intuition has always been spot on, my Mom's not so much. So when I met him for the first time, the man she was dating, in less than 5 minutes I knew he wasn't a good guy. After the meeting I told my Mom to ... Read more

What Are Your Dating Morals: Should You Date Your Ex's Brother?

By

Recently, I was talking to a friend about how the dating pool in our 30's is sadly drying up, that we are forced to go back to past loves or even our past loves family members. Now, I am not knocking anyone who has dated a family member of an old relationship, but I do think that if you go this route, it is best that the ex of the family member you are ... Read more

See More

 
Latest Expert Videos
ASK YOURTANGO MORE QUESTIONS
Must-see Videos
SEE MORE VIDEOS
Most Popular